Discovering Gary's Ted talk helped me get my life back on track. Arguably it went off track when I accidentally found porn at around 10yo, then battled depression and social anxiety (both of which disappeared without porn use.) His science-based yet layman communication style with a good sense of humor! started a journey to self discovery for me, and so many others.
For something that is so difficult to talk about, Gary made it easy to listen to, read about, and understand without prejudice. I have no doubt he has paved the way for further research, healthy debate, and self-improvement for generations to come.
Thank you Gary, and I wish your family & friends all the best!