When I finally faced the fact I had a porn addiction Gary’s book was the first I read. I know many don’t put him in the same level with names like Carnes, but he is on the porn addiction research/education Mt. Rushmore forever. When I finally returned to social media and began going on podcasts to tell my story and started writing books, Gary would drop me a note of encouragement here and there. It meant the world to me. He showed me that it was ok to not be a God guy. It was ok to not be a yoga/crystals/burning sage guy. It was ok to be a science guy who didn’t take crap from other quasi-science people. Gary deserves to be remembered as a brave pioneer in this field. Thank you, Gary. You touched so many people whether they know it or not.