Gary only recently touched my life, I am so sad to hear of his passing. I hoped to draw on his wisdom for years to come (I still will). My heart goes out to you Marnia especially, my personal relationship with my partner has been so enriched by your approach and techniques, and I can't imagine the gap left from losing Gary. So, small as it may be, I feel the tears rising for you all who are left behind, and may the changes and awareness he has brought about allow some part of him to live on.
Tim